For decades as a hospital based and later a private practice audiologist, I had been counseling my hearing impaired patients about the benefits of amplification. Most were receptive, but for a small group of resistive die-hard “denial-ers” I would attempt to motivate them to take steps toward better hearing by quoting scientific research, sharing success stories of the “non deniel-ers” and demonstrating the effectiveness of the latest in amplification technology.
And as a younger, normal hearing audiologist I was empathetic to the concerns of my hearing impaired patients, but on some level I couldn’t completely relate to their daily struggles of living with hearing loss. Until one day, I was one of them!! I too needed some hearing improvement and in 2006 I bit the bullet and fit myself with my first set of hearing devices. Suddenly, I had creds!
As a hearing instrument user, I was able to share my joy, not just my knowledge and professional experience, at hearing the birds chirping, listening to my classical music selections, enjoying movies and my favorite English TV programs that had previously eluded me. Hearing devices, I proclaimed, were giving me an improved quality of life that I was able to share with all of my patients, including the “denial-ers”. And they listened. Hurray!
BUT, as the old infomercials would proclaim, “but wait… there’s more,” I soon unearthed my own amazing discoveries…..experiences I didn’t find in a text but rather from my daily exposure to the sounds around me. I detected the police sirens and ambulance sirens (not that I didn’t hear them before I became a user) when they were further away enabling me to make a maneuver in a timely fashion. I was now a safer driver! I burned fewer dinners because I heard the timer ringing when I was in an adjacent room. I had dryer window sills and floors because I heard the rain against panes and managed to close windows before the deluge. You can imagine how these little improvements reduced the number of spousal complaints.
AND then there was the BEST discovery of all. I have three grandchildren and I no longer protest that they talk too softly or mumble. Grandchildren are the dividends in life’s journey, and if you can’t share or connect with them, a whole segment of the wonderments they bring to the table are lost and never recaptured.
So to all you drivers, cooks, TV viewers, but especially you grandparents of any age, give yourself a gift that brings a whole other world to your doorstep….try to improve your hearing. Find an experienced, well regarded audiologist near your hometown and get started. It will be a journey you won’t regret!
Barbara Rosen, Au.D.
Director of Audiological Services
Audiology of Nassau County
165 North Village Avenue
Rockville Centre, NY 11570