Hearing for the holidays and life

family-meal-free-clip-artIt’s that time of year once again. The days are shorter, the air is colder, we shop too much, we eat too much, and we make plans for more. For most of us the best part of the season aside from the delightful treats and seeing little ones open their presents, is reconnecting with family and friends. Gathering around a table or a fireplace reminiscing, recollecting and sharing is what the holidays are all about.

Yet, for the 48 million Americans that have some degree of hearing loss, the holidays may be a time of great struggle. For those with untreated hearing loss, get togethers with friends, family and colleagues in noisy party settings is often stressful and uncomfortable. Conversation connects us with people and even a mild hearing loss affects the ability to converse in the presence of background noise.

Untreated hearing loss can also lead to social isolation and depression. People decline invitations because they feel like they can’t participate in conversation in a meaningful way. Many feel that they look “stupid” if they can’t properly answer a question (it’s difficult to answer a question that you can’t hear). Depression can result from prolonged isolation.

Many are in denial about their hearing loss, often because it is a gradual process and are truly unaware that there is a problem. Others are concerned that admitting to a hearing loss will make them look “old.” The alternative, which is suffering in silence as the world whirls about is it really is painful for the person with hearing loss and their loved ones.

The silver lining is that hearing aids DO HELP. Most hearing losses can be assisted with hearing aids that are discrete and have a remarkable ability to process sound clearly and naturally. Don’t spend another holiday season in silence. Motivate yourself or your loved ones to have a hearing evaluation. There is little more precious in life than enjoying the company of those we care about. Make the most out of your time together. Hearing enables us to connect and is too precious a sense to be ignored.

Take care of your health, hearing and enjoy the spirit and sounds of the holiday season!

Stefanie Wolf, Au.D.
Doctor of Audiology
Audiology of Nassau County
165 North Village Avenue
Suite #114
Rockville Centre, NY 11570
(516) 764-2094

Baby Boomer, Audiologist, Grandma, Hearing Aid User…

 

grandmareadingFor decades as a hospital based and later a private practice audiologist, I had been counseling my hearing impaired patients about the benefits of amplification. Most were receptive, but for a small group of resistive die-hard “denial-ers” I would attempt to motivate them to take steps toward better hearing by quoting scientific research, sharing success stories of the “non deniel-ers” and demonstrating the effectiveness of the latest in amplification technology.

And as a younger, normal hearing audiologist I was empathetic to the concerns of my hearing impaired patients, but on some level I couldn’t completely relate to their daily struggles of living with hearing loss. Until one day, I was one of them!! I too needed some hearing improvement and in 2006 I bit the bullet and fit myself with my first set of hearing devices. Suddenly, I had creds!

As a hearing instrument user, I was able to share my joy, not just my knowledge and professional experience, at hearing the birds chirping, listening to my classical music selections, enjoying movies and my favorite English TV programs that had previously eluded me. Hearing devices, I proclaimed, were giving me an improved quality of life that I was able to share with all of my patients, including the “denial-ers”. And they listened. Hurray!

BUT, as the old infomercials would proclaim, “but wait… there’s more,” I soon unearthed my own amazing discoveries…..experiences I didn’t find in a text but rather from my daily exposure to the sounds around me. I detected the police sirens and ambulance sirens (not that I didn’t hear them before I became a user) when they were further away enabling me to make a maneuver in a timely fashion. I was now a safer driver! I burned fewer dinners because I heard the timer ringing when I was in an adjacent room. I had dryer window sills and floors because I heard the rain against panes and managed to close windows before the deluge. You can imagine how these little improvements reduced the number of spousal complaints.

AND then there was the BEST discovery of all. I have three grandchildren and I no longer protest that they talk too softly or mumble. Grandchildren are the dividends in life’s journey, and if you can’t share or connect with them, a whole segment of the wonderments they bring to the table are lost and never recaptured.

So to all you drivers, cooks, TV viewers, but especially you grandparents of any age, give yourself a gift that brings a whole other world to your doorstep….try to improve your hearing. Find an experienced, well regarded audiologist near your hometown and get started. It will be a journey you won’t regret!

Barbara Rosen, Au.D.

Director of Audiological Services
Audiology of Nassau County
165 North Village Avenue
Suite #114
Rockville Centre, NY 11570
(516) 764-2094
www.audiologyofnassau.com

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